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A study from the University of Kansas reports on some factors that are indicators of a happy family. How does yours stack up? We must admit there were some surprises for us.

Rules:
Happy families have only a few rules, stated broadly, as opposed to lots of nitpicky rules designed to contain bad behavior. An example would be “Respect”, talking about respect for parents, siblings, belongings etc, instead of outlining every single rule that would cover every situation.

Creative, working parents:
Both parents worked or volunteered; often one worked from home. One researcher said, “In these families, mothers and fathers were perceived as available, but not ‘in their faces.’”

Kids and Risks:
Children are allowed to take some risks, including travel abroad at a young age.

Conflict Resolution:
Happy families have predictable ways to deal with conflict and know that disputes won’t threaten the family.

Private Space:
Family members have their own spaces, no matter how small, to be alone—even if it’s just a treehouse.

And of course…the one we all hear about…
Family Meals:
Happy families eat together. One suggested tactic for stimulating conversation is to recount the high point and the low point from your day.

--Melanie & Kelly